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How to get your partner instantly turned on
Mar 07 , 2021

Every relationship goes through dry spells, where sex doesn't happen often enough for your libido. You want it, you want it bad, and yet, your partner isn't taking any action. I hear a lot of people complain about a mismatch in libido or not having enough sex.

Often, there is a communication breakdown that slowly leads to less and less intimacy until it can feel hard to start the fire again at all.

1. Taking the initiative

Whatever you feel your 'role' is in your relationship, there is no rule that says you can't be the one to initiate sex, or even just initiate a conversation with your partner about sex. Don't let any form of social norm put you in a box and only feel comfortable if your partner is the one initiating. It's a two-way street!

In fact, confidence is likely to arouse your partner (which is great for you too!) . Fear of rejection may hold you back, but trust me, taking the initiative here is so empowering. Calling on your sexuality can bring your sex life right back to the honeymoon phase. It's time to take control - and maybe unleash your inner dominatrix a little.

2. Enhance your sexual aesthetic

It's late afternoon and you and your partner are going about your nightly routine. Instead of grabbing your basic cotton underwear and your usual oversized T-shirt, throw on some sexy lingerie and fishnets. Or put on whatever makes you feel confident and sexy - maybe nothing at all.  Once you enter the bedroom, your partner will go from cold to hot AF in ten seconds. and not only will it turn them on, but you'll feel extra sexy too, knowing you look super sexy. This confidence boost is a win-win!

3. Experiment with Sexting

It's 8am on a Monday morning and you've just turned on your work. You feel a low buzz in your slightly engorged lower body area because you want your partner so damn badly. After all, it's been a while. Just enough subtle hints that you're in demand, baby.

Don't hesitate to sext your partner at any time of the day. If you're feeling super naughty and you feel comfortable doing so, send a nude. It adds a sense of spontaneity and danger. Once your partner sends you a sexy photo right away, you'll be on a mini ego trip. Plus, it totally counts as foreplay!

4. Play with seductive touches

It's easy to forget that your partner thinks you're damn sexy and wants to feel your touch ...... Especially if things haven't been hands-on for a while. A soft whisper in their ear and your lips brushing over them will get your partner excited with anticipation. Then explore new sensations and erotic touches, or allow yourself to rub down as they begin to respond ...... Turn them on too. Want to introduce a whole new sensation? Explore it with some erotic adult toys (including male sex toys) and invite into a new realm of pleasure.

5. Play with yourself

There are several ways to pull this off when you want to get down and dirty with your partner, but here's a tried and tested sexy AF option. When they're just drifting off to sleep, start rubbing and pleasuring yourself while moaning with your writhing naked body right next to theirs. Once they wake up from their stupor, they'll want to be buried deep inside you. One of the benefits of this indirect initiation is a quick orgasm as you've got yourself halfway there, if not nearly there.

6. A bite in the mouth

A surefire way to excite and surprise your partner is to wake them up with oral sex when they are fast asleep. Use your mouth, lips and tongue gently at first as you don't want to wake them up, but once you feel them harden or get wet in your mouth, you can start exploring faster rhythms, pressure and more intense sensations. This is sure to lead to some good fucking and leave you, and your partner, satisfied for days. (Only do this if you have discussed arousal oral sex in the past and your partner has agreed to it!)

Each of these suggestions has been tested by you and works wonders. Use the primal urges in each of you, as well as your sexuality and confidence, to get what you want. Show enthusiasm, never feel embarrassed, be extremely creative and don't overthink things.

And, most importantly, never be afraid that you will be rejected. It's perfectly okay and effective to not be on the same sex page all the time. If you've tried these tips to satisfy your cravings and your partner still doesn't respond, it's worth talking to your partner to find out what's going on and open the door for deeper communication in the bedroom!

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